Recently, many of you have been attending our study sessions and various other events. Thank you very much. It’s natural for everyone to want to become happier and happier.
If you want to become even happier, I have one request for you. There is an incredibly simple way to become incredibly happy, so I would like you to try it.
The truth is that some people can’t seem to find happiness, and they have a wall of “I can’t” in their hearts. Many people have experienced various things from a young age, such as being told “you can’t do this” or failing exams or being slow in certain activities.
People go through various things in life. But to tell the truth, the ratio of success to failure is about 1 to 9. So, even though people say that those with many successful experiences are free, in most cases, they have more experiences of failure.
Even someone who competes in the Olympics and shows amazing skills actually fails about 100 times before succeeding once. But everyone creates that wall of “I can’t,” you know what I mean? You have to break down that “I can’t” wall.
If you ask, “How can I break it down?” in reality, it crumbles easily when you speak loudly. It’s easy to break down if you speak loudly, but you actually need to do two things.
The first thing is, there are people in your neighborhood who get drunk and shout, right? There are also mothers who shout at their children, but they’re not becoming happier at all. They’re building a wall of “I can’t.”
However, when you speak loudly with joy and positivity, not negativity, it crumbles easily. Doing something joyful and speaking loudly once makes everyone excited. Their faces become radiant and lively. So please do it. Do joyful and positive things.
By doing this, good things happen. When you do joyful and positive things, you create a happiness barrier around yourself. This way, even if bad things happen, they bounce off. You can’t say bad things to those with this barrier. The other day, someone did something fun, speak loudly, and came home. Then, the husband or children who usually complain said, “What’s gotten into you? You seem energetic today,” or “Did something good happen?” Because that barrier is there, they can’t complain anymore.
So, humans naturally have this barrier. If you do joyful and positive things, you have this happiness barrier.
So, humans aren’t covered in fur, they don’t have sharp claws, and they don’t need them because naturally, humans are designed to avoid unpleasant situations without hurting others. If you have that barrier, you don’t need tough fur or claws.
The second thing you need to do. Actually, humans have dreams. When someone asks you to talk about your dream, successful people always have one condition. Successful people connect their dream to their work and say, “My dream is to do this job and contribute to society in this way.”
For example, “I run an izakaya (Japanese pub). My dream is for the people in this town to come to my izakaya when they’re tired from work and get re-energized. I want them to be able to work happily the next day. That’s my dream.”
A dream connected to work equals success. People who feel a sense of mission and purpose in their work will definitely become successful.
On the other hand, when asked about their dream, people who immediately think of things like “traveling abroad” or “buying a bag” are escaping from work.
Saying that work equals a dream might make you think of a workaholic, but people who work hard in their jobs can actually get to travel and buy bags.
One group of people doesn’t connect their work and their dream, so they hate their jobs. They wonder why they have to wash dishes and cook in a place like this.
On the other hand, someone who cooks while thinking, “Everyone who eats here gets energized and goes to work happily,” and who wants everyone to feel better, is completely different. Do you understand?
When you speak loudly about the meaning of your job, a success aura emanates from you. Trying to succeed without emitting this success aura is impossible.
If you’re working in a metalworking factory, for example, you have to be able to say in a loud voice how much your spring is helping people.
“I have a sense of mission in this job,” or if you’re a housewife, “I’m a housewife, and I have a sense of mission in doing things this way.”
You will become able to say it with absolute certainty, and you will even find yourself wanting to say it uncontrollably.
Every time you say it, words are sent to your soul, and one day, they will reach your soul and burst forth like a geyser. This happens to everyone, so please don’t worry.
Through this practice, the “I can’t” wall will crumble. Then you will have a happiness barrier.
If your soul is exposed, you easily get hurt over small things. Hikikomori (people who withdraw from society) also have lost their happiness barriers. So, to bring out your happiness barrier, have fun and speak loudly.
And then it will change into a success aura. Look at your face after doing just this. Your complexion has improved significantly. It’s become very radiant.
That’s the happiness barrier and the success aura all mixed together. Will you do it now? Please enjoy it. Smile. And look at your face in the mirror. See how much it has changed since you came here. Thank you very much.
コメント