People undergo multiple reincarnations. For example, some people often say that they were born without their choice, but most individuals actually choose their parents before being born. In general, when choosing parents, people don’t necessarily opt for those who will make them happy. The purpose of being born is, in most cases, to polish one’s soul.
In simple terms, there are challenges, and everyone faces at least one challenge. For instance, failing an exam or suddenly falling ill may be some of these challenges. “Life” is written with two kanji characters: “人” (person) on top and “叩” (hit) at the bottom. You can interpret it as meaning that every person will be hit at least once. In other words, everyone will encounter challenges in life.
During these challenges, individuals may suffer greatly. We have both guardian spirits and our true self, and when we talk to our true self, it responds, “Everything is going well for me. My life is going really smoothly.” So, even though they may appear to be suffering, the challenges they face are actually things they have chosen for themselves. Since they have chosen these challenges, it’s not a difficult situation for them. Because they are smoothly handling the challenges they have chosen for themselves, there are no problems for them.
For example, there are some people who completely entrust their health to others. Even though they can leave their body to the doctors, they actually need to take care of their everyday health themselves. If they don’t change their diet or anything and leave it entirely to others, they end up becoming sick. There are many people like that. What are these people learning? They are learning what happens when they completely entrust themselves to others. So, those people who seem to never learn or do anything differently are actually learning something. Souls are always learning.
Some people accumulate a lot of debt, and no matter how much others advise them against it, they continue to borrow even more money. But they are learning what happens when they accumulate debt without considering their financial situation. So, even if we think, “That person isn’t learning anything or doing anything,” they are actually learning. When you ask their soul, it says, “Everything is going smoothly.” Therefore, even if someone is going through immense suffering, it is still going smoothly for them.
Humans undergo numerous reincarnations. So, some people in this life may want to challenge themselves with immense difficulties. They may even choose to be born with health issues. In fact, there is always a small percentage of people who are born with health issues, like 1 in hundreds or thousands.
It’s strange, but even in such cases, they choose the parents who are kind enough to take care of them. Even though some parents whose children were born with health issues blame themselves for it, it’s actually a pre-agreed arrangement from a past life, and they were chosen because of their kind hearts. Some incredibly strong souls want to face challenges in this life, so they decide to be born into difficult circumstances.
Now, you might wonder if there’s a way to avoid these challenges or if there’s an easy way to evade them. Yes, there is a way, and I will write it down as a present for those who have read this far.
In life, every encounter with someone is like a crossroad. People are meant to grow through their relationships with others. So, treat each person you meet with words of love and kindness. What do I mean by “words of love”? For example, even if you think someone is an older lady, you should address her as “Oneisan” (young lady). All women are like young ladies. Even if you go to a restaurant and the food is not tasty, say, “Oneisan(Young lady), it was delicious. You have a beautiful smile.” This is the kind of language that has love in it. On the other hand, if you call her “Obasan” (older lady) and say, “Have you gained weight recently?” and make her feel bad, it’s not love-filled language.
Some people might say, “Well, it’s the truth, so what’s wrong with saying it?” But it’s not good to say anything just because it’s true. If someone is sensitive about their weight, commenting on it without consideration is not love-filled. Instead, say, “You are doing great! Even though you didn’t get into that university, maybe you will meet wonderful people at another place. Perhaps the university that rejected you wasn’t the right one for you. The one that accepted you might be the right one.” If you speak with words of love and avoid hurting others, slowly but surely, your crossroads will change for the better.
Always remember that every person you encounter is a crossroad in your life. If you can speak words of love to each person, they might not be destined to be a part of your life, but your true self and the gods above see what you are doing. So, always speak words of love to the people in front of you.
I know it might sound strange when it comes to my own experience, but recently, I went to a restaurant, and the food was not tasty at all. The elderly woman who was the owner was also not very friendly. However, I still said, “Oneisan(young lady), the food was delicious. Your smile is lovely,” and I left a tip for her. People around me said that the food wasn’t good and that she was unfriendly, but that’s not the point. She has lived up to that age without relying on anyone, serving the same dishes, and surely has raised children and sent them to school. It’s not her fault that she has a diminished sense of taste. She has worked hard and survived. Perhaps, she has never been praised or received a tip from anyone. Everyone in life should be praised at least once. So, if you can appreciate each person you meet, like my disciple who understood this, you will be amazed. So, show your appreciation and give a big round of applause to everyone.
Also, sometimes, people with certain abilities think they are great and others are stupid, but this attitude only leads to their life becoming worse. Having abilities is good, but it’s essential to maintain an attitude of love. Even with academic achievements, it’s not a bad thing to get into a good university. However, if you boast about yourself, saying, “I’m great, and you are all idiots,” then your life will gradually turn for the worse. Eventually, like the Titanic, you will collide with an unavoidable challenge, and your life will sink dramatically. So, step by step, take yourself in a better direction.
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